Originally from the Western part of the state, near Pittsburgh, relocated to the York area about 7 years ago.
As for inspiration, I really think you're post demonstrates exactly what more of us need to do. My problem...I have those same thoughts and rather than supressing them, I tend to let them out. In my defense, I have gotten much better....but nowhere near where I need to be. But I think you have it right on.....he obviously isn't ready to focus on the forest if he can't even see the trees.
As for going dark, I wonder whether that is the answer in your case. I guess I question motivations at this point in all aspects. What is your motivation in going dark? Is it to, hopefully, force a reaction from your SO? If so, you may want to reconsider.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
