Thanks PARob,
May I ask where in PA? I grew up in the Poconos. And thanks for your words....don't know if you'll find me so inspiring after this post...lol

Anyway - Mr. Don'tPinMeDownToAnything was here...just left, as a matter of fact. Good thing, too. And this is THE prime example of why I won't ask any questions at this point.

The whole sad story from this morning must have prompted some instinct in me...well, I blatantly asked SO to come out here for things other than to just get his truck... Yeah - I wanted some damned comfort! And got it. That wasn't the problem.

Later on, we're eating lunch, chit-chatting away comfortably - talking about the weekend, his work, etc...I asked him "What are your Easter plans?". His answer - "I don't know." PULLLLEEEEAAAZZZE!!! It's one frickin' day - a holiday and you can't make up your about what you want to do? This is all in my head, BTW - I said nothing out loud. Yes, I know - there was any number of things I could have said, I chose not to. I was a little angry and feared I wouldn't be able to control it. "If you don't have anything good to say - don't say anything at all." was running thru my head.

Moral of this story? If he can't make up his mind about one day - I am in no way going to start asking about "US"...lol. Perhaps NOW is the time for me to do some serious, serious goal-setting and time to turn off the light switch and go dark. I mean really, really dark. So damned dark - I'm taking out all the light bulbs and throwing them away so even if I'm tempted to turn the lights on to see where I'm going I won't be able to. What do ya'all think?

Argh!

PS - here's another little "thing". He also needed contacts. He ripped one of his. I just looked. He only took 2. Not ALL of them like a normal person who doesn't live here anymore would do!!!!