Not sure what it's worth, but what strikes me as funny (odd, not ha ha) about your sitch is that it's unclear to me (and maybe to you and SO also) about why he isn't living at home.
It almost seems like he acts like he isn't living at home for the sake of job convenience. In the military we call it being Geo(raphical) Bachelor. Like he is living closer to his job during the week and coming home on weekends.
Where as if he was moved out because he has chosen not to have a relationship with you things would be much different and in some ways easier.
It just seems like this is making things harder for you. Not being able to make plans and such. Does that make any sense?
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
