Well, the short version - "just cuz". He would go around telling friends & family we were going to - without ever really asking me. When I became pregnant with our 3rd, he did ask...and I told him yes, but that I didn't want to do it while I was pregnant. Shortly after that, he became involved with OW.
I guess he might have a different version or different reasons if he was asked that same question.
If one goes back to my orginal thread, it was titled "What to do when Getting married is the issue"....Through most of this, HE was the one who always brought up the whole marriage issue.
This is too deep for me today. I don't want to think today. I'm sorry. I did go out for a drive for awhile, but had to come back to put the kids down for a nap. He's been calling here and I've not been answering the phone. I don't want my bad mood to come out.
