You know I worry (even though I have come to feel worry as a completely useless pursuit, just hard to give up). I'm always afraid of being "that" person you so aptly describe. As a matter of fact, I am going to copy and paste that description to my thread. I really think it should be pinned to the top of every board here as the perfect example of WHY we don't want to beg, plead and pursue even though we feel so certain it will work. It is a wonderful illustration, different enough to work as true analogy but similar enough to sting a bit. I really think everyone should read that post.
For me, It sucks to realize that you ARE that person, and I TRULY was, but when I saw this (when the bombs fell, I saw right away this neediness was a big reason why), I IMMEDIATLY changed. I find myself slipping back now and then, and actually, your post made me realize that I am doing a little TOO much for my W right now. I am beyond loving and considerate and back to that guy a little bit. Indeed, I will take those half steps and I will start by taking one backwards. I think it will help.
Thanks again you steel toed boot wearing taskmaster!
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P.S. Well, the busy time was short lived...maybe busy again later but right now a lull. Thanks for worrying NM
