Lol, don't worry GH, I think you are doing pretty well these days.

One thing to think about, though, is to maybe try to take half a step toward W for every step she takes toward you.

Again, think about the person in the office. They've really been leaving you alone, they moved down the hall so you don't feel their eyes on you when you go to lunch... They go on vacation and come back upbeat and positive, refreshed. You decide to give them a chance and ask them to lunch. You have a good lunch. Then, the very next day, they invite you. Can you feel your stomach clench? Maybe after a few days if they'd invited you to join the gang for a beer, that would have been OK. But, another one-on-one lunch immediately??? *Crowding.*

That's it.

Best,
Oldtimer


Best,
Oldtimer