Don't know a whole lot of books...how about "After the affair. Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful" by Janis Abrahms
Actually, I wasn't asking you those questions. I was suggesting that maybe you should ask your ex those questions. You have done enough together that I think it's okay to broach the subject. The fact that she tells you about this OM and what it does to her, makes me think she sees you as only a friend.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
