Oh yeah, I also wouldn't mind if you know of any books like you mentioned, for how to deal with the affair and infidelity. I know that I am not totally okay with it; but I am not angry at her for it and don't want to be. So, if you have any titles, please pass them along. I am not a big reader; but I do know that books like Divorce Rememdy, I couldn't put down. I read it in 2 days. Made alot of sense whether or not the marriage ever got pieced back together or not. It definitely is something I recommend to people who are split or divorced or whatever.
I hate being alone; but I do know that if I hadn't gone through this that I wouldn't have fixed parts of me that needed fixing. And if in the end it is not enough, I will be able to move on to someone new.
