Only have few minutes to post; but it's funny...I came across text messages and a pretty graphic picture and it didn't bother me the way I thought it would. I still want to see if it can work. The info was from back in July. Am I just messed up or is this normal???
Also, does anyone who ever went through this affair stuff or knows someone who did have any advice on what to do in dealing with her? I see that she has guilt and disbelief in herself. In fact, she told me yesterday that, when she was out with some friends, that they didn't notice; but that she cried when one particular song came on. She told me she felt like she had hit rock bottom. Do they really miss that abusive relationship or was it just an escape from all that happened in the divorce? I know I went through a vast emotional coaster and did stuff I didn't think I could either. Is it just about giving her time to get through her guilt, emotions etc and see what comes out on the other side? I mean I have given alot to this and it would be a shame to walk away now.
