^ more details on what i found out and whether going through those things are ever fixable...She really went low self esteem for herself and the things she did with him. I don't like what I have heard and don't want details...Just would work on us if we got the chance...Just not sure if she really cares or is fearful because of what I know...Iwouldn't use it against her...If I had wanted to, I would have already done so; but I haven't.
Like I said I will give more details when I get a moment. The details are very degrading for her to have done and only she can accept that I can't help her there. And when she comes out of the fog and is ready to pursue some relationship, will she want it to be us? We'll see...I try to keep busy and move forward; but having been involved by her in this, I feel like I need to see if it can be fixed...Just not sure how nto be supportive without possibly getting burnt...Hard to support and move forward so as not to get hurt.
