Thanks for the info. I know each situation is different and that is why I am looking for as many perspectives as I can. Guess that's the engineer in me. Looking for a good amount of samplings to judge what is up in my situation.
I do enjoy getting together with her. It's just taht I don't want to smother her. We get together quite a bit for coffee and she doesn't say no; buit I don't want her to feel smothered. You see, I feel like I should see more affection than I do from her and I am not sure given my situation, that I should expect that. this isn't like starting a new relationship. It's with the same person and I guess that makes it different. I just am afraid of being used. Maybe I shouldn't expect a whole lot from her right now. I just don't want to drive her away by being around her too much. I want to be around her to give her a chance to know me again and for me to know her. I guess I worry that when I have the kids on a weekend, that she will go out and someone will interest her and I will feel like I got used. I want to stick it out; but sometimes it's hard to keep the perspective.
You see, I would think if there was no interest, that she would say no; but she doesn't. However, she doesn't make it seem like there is any direction to this yet either.
It's confusion on my part. I enjoy the time together; but am afraid of how it will hurt if it doesn't go anywhere.
