Met her yesterday for lunch. She had me meet her at the hair salon she was getting her hair cut at. She had never been there before. So, she really didn't know the woman that cut it other than meeting her that day. Anyway, you know how people talk to bartenders, hairstylists, etc. Well, not sure what they talked about; but when she came out with the stylist, an older woman, the woman told my ex. Have a good time at lunch. Not that it means anything; but I'd like to think of it as a positive step. But there is still something about my ex that holds back a bit.
Problem for me, is Is it guilt for her actions, not sure whther she wants a relationship with me or just using me? Really confusing and looking for some input. It's hard to keep going when you are not sure if you are or aren't wasting your time. I know it's a slow process; but I am looking for more indications than grabbing lunch going for coffee, etc. I will say that she has agreed to go get a massage with me on her day off next week. Again confused and not sure what it means, as she avoids hugs, etc/
