Well, there is additional info now.

First off there are a few women who I really liked and would like to ask out and then there are others that I feel are just ok and would fill time; but nothing more. A distraction from the Ex; but the others I mentioned would make me forget about the ex.

Well, the additional inf? I went online to match.com and did a search and who low and behold came up as the first search amtch; but a new member...MY EX!!!

Anyway, it's sad; because we match up on alot of the criterion...So, why are we divorced??? I can't just wait for her, as obviously she is definitely moving on...Sad; because she at times still sends mixed signals.

I have a wider distance for my search in terms of miles, so she comes up first...for her, she has a shorter distance, so I may not come up on her radar!!! However, she will know I am on there and know about her because I viewed her and that shows up to her.

Well, kind of sad about it; but she has every right to be on there as we are divorced. Just a bit sad; because I thought that if she was going to be on there it would have happened before now. The fact taht we match just drives me nuts and wonders if she is missing the boat or if the site is missing the compatibility???

Well, I will see where life goes...It was just a shock to see that new member at midnight last night!!!