Not that this has anything to do with divorcebusting; but I had to add this to my previous post!!! I have the kids for Easter and I don't know why I thought my parents would be around; but they won't be. As usual, my mom makes it a point to go to my aunts for the holidays instead of staying and being with her grandchildren My dad spoke up to her about this years agoa when I was still married. He told her that my aunt stayed home because she now had grandchildren and Now my parents did too; but as usual, my mom decides that she might have an hour or so; but she has to go to my aunts house. I think she gets selfish and I was willing to cook and have her over; but she has to go to my aunts!!! This vreated alot of strees for me during my marriage and still does. Once again, I will have to listen to my ex say why didn't you just let them come home earlier to see their cousins. I tend to agree. My kids will end up liking her family better because mine are never around. That stinks that my family will make it hard for me to maybe have my kids want to be with me during the holidays. Don't get me wrong, I don't enjoy her mom's way of controlling; but I am so sick of trying to please everyone. Like I said it caused me alot of stress and helped ruin our marriage and now I can't fix any of it!!!
