Well, nothing new. I did go on a date last night; but it wasn't the right person. She was nice; but... Supposed to see another woman tomorrow; but we'll see. And surprise surprise, when it rains it pours!!! I was out somewhere talking to this guy and his wife comes in to meet him and we all get talking and she says "oh, you're single? Would you like to meet a friend of mine?" I explain to her that although not shallow, I am leery of blind dates. Her husband says "I think he would fit better with Kathy than your other friend" SO the woman calls her and talks to her then hands methat phone. I got her number and will call her next week when she gets back from her trip. Well, that's it on that front. Not where I wanted it to go; but hey, I guess I have to take advantage of things as they come along, since my Ex doesn't seem to be able to make her own decisions. She lets other do it for her.
WHat I mean is that we were okay until her parents wouldn't watch the kids so we could go out. She said after talking to them "How did we get to where we were hanging with each other all the time?" In my head, it is either she is too weak and can't speak up for herself or maybe she doesn't want to admit it; but she does still care and such. But we will never know; because since then, I haven't received any calls from her but one. Never got a call on Monday or Wednesday on whether my stepson and I were meeting at the gym. And the call on Tuesday was to tell me that her sister would pickup our 6yr old son and bring him to her other sisters to play with her daughter!!! Let's see, before she needed me to get him and watch him; but now that her parents talked to her, it seems she just is totally backing away. Sad really; but I don't want someone who is that easily influenced. What bothers me most is that as my kids grow, I fear they will be closer to her family and these are my only kids and I fear holidays and never seeing them as much or any possible grandchildren. This really sucks.
