Hi Fizzle - I am so so sorry to hear this news. I agree with the others that you should have a clear head before a discussion and the pro/con list sounds good. I wish Ellie or Sage were around to offer expert advice for you. Just remember this has nothing to do you with you. He's the one that is depressed and sounds like he's still in mlc - la, la land. Hang in there. Could you call the DB coach you used previously (if I'm remembering right)? (((((Fizzle))))) SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
