Fizzle, if he wants to talk, let him talk. Truth or lies, but this is coming from someone who's H does not talk, at least he's talking with you.

Also, if you gave an ultimatum, it's time to put teeth into it. Sorry, but that's harsh reality.

And my gosh - 10 beers?!! ufda! ouch! be sure to have a clear head before that talk tonight.

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.