hi Ellie, good to hear from you. I so hope that he really does finally see through the fog. Sure seems to. and yes, I'm gonna try to get up the nerve and venture into his office. used to do that a lot. He is still here only one day a week though, and we're both still hoping eventually he'll be in the out of town office everyday. been hoping that for a year now....

Oh, yeah, don't know if I posted this or not, but he did say that she has been conspicously invisible today. previously, he had mentioned monster had said she had been told 2x by HR to knock off the A...but of course her great love for H (puke) compelled her to continue. wonder if she's been advised to make herself scarce?????

ah, well. I just hope the loving guy I'm seeing glimpses of these days continues to emerge from his shell. I just got an email calling me dear, and saying he'd see me soon and was looking forward to it.

I guess I struggle so to understand because it is so hugely out of character for him to have an affair, and with that type of person to boot. Just totally off the wall weird. But then we all know that story, huh?


been around awhile!