Sorry to hear about the latest developments. Did your H know you were going to the hospital with your son, or was he just not contactable for a while? If he chose not to be with you and son, I would say that is a very big red flag of something wrong.
Also, what does your weight have to do with going fishing?
(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates