Deb...just on the naughty side...how about you both find some stuff you can go for online? From what I recall, you can even find stuff on Amazon.com now. There are stores geared more towards women also, that aren't so hardcore. I personally don't care for huge porno type palaces, but maybe a Fredericks of Hollywood for outfits, and you can even get some fun other stuff at places also like Drugstore.com.
Why not look online with your hubby this weekend? I'd not be looking up hardcore stuff, though...yuck.
