I did get this reply to the email i sent earlier about needing to be concentrating on seducing his wife:
"Yes, you are right I should be thinking more of seducing my wife! The monster torment is just too much fun sometimes. Perhaps when you see her stomp or with odd looks you know I’m getting the job done!! I just can’t stand the “in your face cutesy crap” so this certainly knocks that the hell out! See she wants me to look all depressed and sad, aw she can just flip her hair and get me right back, right! How’s your afternoon going? "
and then another one about a co-workers baby who's been ill, I just got back and sent a short response that I'm looking forward to being seduced,and havent heard back yet. so we'll see.