Hi Ellie, just saw your post.... I don't know what we could do, honestly we don't do much of anything with anybody, havent for a long time, because I can't seem to get him to do a damn thing. It drives me nuts. he will hardly leave the house, except of course he was perfectly happy to to visit monster. That's part of why I was such a sucker for his "hunting trips" and making the arrangements for the damn vacation he took her on....I was so glad that he was FINALLY doing something besides sitting around mopeing ??????????????? I hate to sound like I'm arguing with/rejecting your suggestions, but I honest to God dont' know what I can do/try/suggest. I had such hopes for our out-of town weekend in February, that FINALLY he was getting out of his shell, and what does the dumbass do but mope around for the who-e and complain about money for 2 days and then tell me he can't do that anymore because it hurts too much.
