well, this stinks. I got these emails from him a bit ago...shows how totally wrapped up in her a$$ he still is.
"Well, Devil D is just the person for the driving over the edge job! I always have paid close attention to what makes people tick, got to in this job and with that insight you also find out what really bugs them. I know she just goes wild when I say I want to use D (other nurse) as my contact point with the medical staff. She won’t say why exactly but I know it bugs her. Also, if I’m talking with or hanging around with S (female coworker in other office), she really gets acting stompy so I do that whenever possible when I know she’ll be watching. Remember last staffing? I was sitting by S with A (other female out-of-town coworker) right behind me? She thought she’d sit in front and flip hair? I totally beat her as every time she looked over to flip I was talking to one or the other which really pissed her off. I think she figures I’m like her, you screw everyone you talk to, I don’t but it sure keeps her jumping and fuming so I keep on doing what I can. I’m working on hanging with D (other nurse) more as of all people that really lights the fire and I want it blazing till she totally nuts out!!! I’m showing her hey it’s just so easy to find these young gals whatever was I thinking with her ugly ass??? She can imagine whatever she wants regarding what I’m doing with whom! Ha ha Yep it works like a charm. Later
....I asked why she gets so upset about him talking to the other nurse, and got this: "I think they have had words and she is very competitive, that she could lose me to someone, but it just better not be her arch rival. Actually D (other nurse) is so nice and very professional so I can have a perfectly nice conversation with her and frost monster’s ass big time!! Monster figures if I go back to you I’m safe and she can get me back anytime she wants. That is why I tell her when she asks how I doing? That I have “wonderful friends” that I can share all my hurts with, like S and A. I usually won’t hear back for 5-6 weeks so it’s a potent leave me alone move! Well, client is here so I got to go. D
WTF can't he tell monster he has ME to share all his hurts with? Lord knows he does.
I am so sick to death of this. I dunno, keep trying to draw him back and distract him, or go dark and GAL big time? although that is part of what created the problem before.
I have not responded to the last email, don't intend to. I may not respond the rest of the day.
