Quote: Meanwhile - I give you the same advice. You have got to switch his attention from OW to home by introducing novelty, flirting with him, sending him funny emails during the day so he has something else to think about and look forward to, introducing novelty into your life with him so he wonders what he'll find each night when he goes home.
Ellie and Mollie and Always 14, and anyone and everyone else: I hate to sound dull and dense, but I swear I could use any ideas anyone has to share....I am kinda running out of things to try here...I do lots of candles, some music...try to fix foods he really likes, be upbeat, provocative (when s13 isn't around, which isnt often) get him little gifts and treats, have left cards and notes (although I don't do it all the time, because I think it could become obnoxious).... Don't think I ever posted, but I did do the "fail proof" outfit...black leather jacket, white shirt, boot cut jeans...I'm not sure what he thought of it, but his comment was that monster has a jacket about like it. ouch, guess I shoulda known.