Just checking in to see how you're doing. What have you been up to? Any news?
I was just reading over the end of your last post. You know, there are so many women here who have come out of their shells post-bomb, be it finding work or careers they never had, taking the "risk" of meeting and becoming close w/ new friends, or taking up new hobbies. I think this new life may force you to do that. Look at calder's threads, she is a good example -- she often notes that she has had to push herself to risk rejection and reach out to others and that yes, sometimes there are disappointments, but the rewards are tremendous. I think if you put yourself into an environment of people w/ common interests it becomes much easier b/c you have that common bond to start with -- for calder, her walking group, for instance. What things turn you on, and what can you do to nurture those interests and gain exposure to others who share your passion? Church? Join a group w/ your parish. Music? Attend local concerts (many are free -- I met one of my best gfs at one just post-bomb). Dance? Okay, I just threw that in there b/c of what it's done for me, -- but again, if that's something you wanted to try, they often have low-cost courses at local schools and Ys. The thing is to think about things that make you smile and take it from there. If you think of something and find yourself thinking oh, but I can't do that b/c [insert excuse here], come back and tell us what it is so we can brainstorm.
Anyway, I hope you will let the joy of this season lift you up.
-- but again, if that's something you wanted to try, they often have low-cost courses at local schools and Ys. The thing is to think about things that make you smile and take it from there. If you think of something and find yourself thinking oh, but I can't do that b/c [insert excuse here], come back and tell us what it is so we can brainstorm.