I do understand how you are feeling.... the frustration just chapped my ss
Here's what I think about a trial....
I didn't have one. I'm still going to court to collect the maintenance I was supposed to get from August 2004. I'm spending big buck now anyway.... upfront, or for two years.. hopefully a trial will have a better out come.
Make sure to get any and ALL support orders come with an income withholding order, or an income garnishment order (depending on what they are called in your state).... I don't care what your STBXH says.... get one anyway.
You are doing a great job, hold out for every penny. Seriously! Cause, one way or another, the Xs will figure out a loop hole or a way of getting out of it from time to time, and you'll need to be able to afford to bring him back again.
Remember, get one of those statements that if stbxh is in contempt or found in contempt, he is responsible for your attorney fees, when you need to take him back to court.
Otherwise Creed, I do know what you are going through. Waiting another 8 months to have it finalized is going to be killer.... but I know you will find a way to live your life in between those days, when you don't have to think or worry about going back to court....
My thoughts are with you...
Take care, get some rest, and do something special to pamper yourself, or get some nice flowers for around the apartment to make it feel more homey.... reward yourself for a job well done.
God Bless
Love,
Laughing
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
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