Happy Easter to you. I hope it was pleasant for you.
The moving will get done in due time, as will all the other stuff. FWIW, I didn't have to have my car appraised either. H's lawyer actually had picked some inflated figure out of the air and I went by the blue book value to make the correction and that is how the paperwork ended up reading.
My prayers to you on Wednesday. Remember to act "as if" and treat this as all business. It does a world of good.