Quote: Oh, sure, there are the legalities, but could you just let it sit until your stbxh gets his butt chewed by the court.... he's the one that filed, I would think they would go after him
That's exactly what I'm hoping Laughing
I can't believe that H can get away with letting me do all the work...and not be in contempt of SOMETHING!!
Hopefully the court will see it your way. That he was the one that filed, but has not been motivated enough to bring it to a timely conclusion..and by his hand, not mine. I will certainly ask my L about all of this the next time we speak. This has to stop. H has to take responsibility for his choices and actions. I shouldn't have to pay monetarily for his life decisions. There should be a law that states that the one that files is completely responsible for everything entailed. That they are not allowed to mentally and financially abuse the other spouse through tactics such as what you, I and others have /are enduring.
You are in my prayers also, Laughing. You've been through so much for so long. I can only hope that it ends soon for you..and that the rest of us don't have to endure what you've had to. You've been such a great support to so many of us..and your wisdom is priceless. you may think you don't know what to say..but everything you do say makes a difference in our daily lives.
Hope you're taking care of yourself and your young'uns. Remember how important your are to so many people.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible
