Welcome to your new thread. I had a feeling that the title of your thread had something to do with Him...and you are so right about it.
I'm glad things are working out with the apartment and the clean-up. Your Faith has sustained you once again.
I'm glad you were able to laugh a bit as you were going through the letters. I don't think that you'll have to worry about becomeing bitter. You're way beyond that already. I sometimes find myself smiling as I remmeber something STBXH said or did and I'm glad I can still do that. I think our WAS' aren't totally oblivious to the parallels from other situations but just push it aside in their mind.