Creed, I couldn’t identify more with what you said. I don’t know where my R. w/H. is headed, either, but I do want to remind myself that I have family & friends that care very much, and of course God too. I don’t need H., but I would like to have him in my life again. I, too, assumed we were “in sync”; good way to word that. Clearly I was wrong. He is depressed and going through something very difficult, and through that I have had to learn a series of life lessons. I wish you happiness, Creed.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
