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No hysterics, no drama, just him leaving and you staying.



Thanks GH, I couldn't be cheery and all, not even when he got home (10:30, WAY BETTER than midnite or 2am), but I was not a snarky sarcastic you-know what...let all those zingers stay in my head.

I am trying to let go of my need to always control everybody else, and know what their deal is, including H. You are right, I am here because I chose to be, and I am not ready to have anyones living situations changed, yet. I am in control of me, though. It is a beautiful sunny day here, H is already moping in the bedroom, and the kids and I are talking about the day and the plans. And, I don't actually feel angry or mad or whatever.

GH, not to jump on the "all hail grasshopper" bandwagon or anything, but I want to thank you, too. I look forward to your posts, whether it is congratulatory or a reality slap, it is always what needs to be heard. It is a kind and generous person who can take the time out from their own problems to help so many other people with theirs. Thank you...