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They have to get OW out of their system on their own. We CANNOT force them, they will end up resenting us big time.



I keep telling myself this. And yes, it completely sucks. I had hoped that he'd be home by now, and new that the later it got the sadder I'd get. It's all about detaching, right? And finding things that we love to do, so that eventually we're so happy with our own lives, we don't feel the pain so much. That's what I am counting on.