Oh, I don't really care why, hence the either way, believe me, I enjoy it and completely appreciate it.
Last nite I went to the gym, and decided to stay longer than usual for a class, anyway when I got home 2 1/2 hours later, Dinner had been made, kids had ate, dishes done, trash out...holy moley! H said he realized he hadn't washed the dishes or taken out the trash since we moved (March). I was amazed.
Incidently, I did get Love Languages from the library, and it was interesting, a year ago I would have guessed I was Acts of Service, if only because I always wanted more help with the house and kids, etc. Anyway, I am Quality Time and Physical Touch. I haven't felt like guessing what H's answers would be, or asking him to take the test, but I will soon enough...
GH, I like your "who freakin cares why," that is kinda what I've been thinking about this whole thing. "Why" H does anything is really not my concern, he is a confused, sad guy right now. I know too many "why's" for now, I just want to figure out my own "What's." Been spending lots of time at the beach after the kids are out of school, and the gym, and trying to figure out how I want to spend my last week or so of unemployment. There's a lot to explore in this new territory, and now that the sun is out and the rains are gone, it's time to get out there!
