Like the last poster said.. no more snooping. You're only hurting yourself.. and possibly your relationship.
Just for the sake of arguement.. it's possible that he's not told her about you and your rebuilding of R just to keep things "separate" and possibly not drive a further nail in the coffin (so to speak) in his telling her to buzz off.
People do weird things sometimes.
Link to stuff from the spring.. before I gave up...or he moved. Either way.
