Since I've already shot the no-snoop rule, I caught the response he sent and hers back... Rather than posting their email exchange, it appears that my H, contrary to what he had told me, had NEVER told OW that he and I were working on things, not any of the three times he's returned to me, and is breaking it off with her because, according to his email to her, she "made out" with a guy in February. (Are we in High School?) All this time I have been thinking what a bitch, stay out of my life, and she has no idea that H and I have been living together, sleeping together, what am I supposed to do with this? He emailed her to stay away from him and never call or contact agin, so I guess that is good, but I am left questioning his motives, his desire, everything. PLEASE, what would you make of this, I am not thinking clearly right now...