Thanks for rooting me on, GH, I noticed we are in similiar places as well, in fact contemplated stealing your thread title if things keep moving in this direction
The pressure from the OW is already there, but I'm trying to see that as a good thing, much like we are taught not to pressure our spouses while DB'ing. That she and I are in a sense reversing roles, in that I will become the independent strong woman he was attracted to when we first met, qualities he was attracted to in OW, and she will actually start to look like the nuero-case.
It is still day to day, but the days are going by quicker.
