Been down this path before

[BeingMe]

I think that sometime you are going to have to make a move to get out of the groove you seem to be in. Not sure how, but be sure you are not being a doormat, and overly passive. It is good to be calm and non confrontational, but you need to also stand up for yourself.

I get the feeling that you are just going along with the status quo, but I hope you are preparing for whatever might come along.

Anyway, just a thought, and hope you are taking care of you, and not letting your H use you as his sounding board about the OW, and taking advantage of the fact that you are "turning the other cheek". Although, I do agree that we should be friendly, and have open communication with our S's.

Thinking of ya!