Keep it up, Leslie. You seem to have found a middle ground - no expectations from H, but still being able to flirt and be positive, while keeping a good level of detachment. Just continue to pursue your own passions, i.e. hobbies, and doing things outside of your sitch.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim