Right, Leslie! And, don't forget that you are eating some of that cake too! That's what worked with my H - I let him have it, with no expectations, learned to enjoy my little side thing with him, and got on with the other things I enjoyed in my life, while H was wallowing in his self-doubt, confusion, self-pity, and little fantasy world. Ultimately, I became the better fantasy! He couldn't wait to get home! Hehehehehe! He actually told me, that all that ML, won him back. At first, I was a little offended, but then I thought - HA, gotcha!
I am thinking of ya!
Okay, it's late, been studying wwwwaaaayyyy too much, and writing Anatomy & Pysiology 2 tomorrow. Ouch!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
That's what worked with my H - I let him have it, with no expectations, learned to enjoy my little side thing with him, and got on with the other things I enjoyed in my life, while H was wallowing in his self-doubt, confusion, self-pity, and little fantasy world. Ultimately, I became the better fantasy! He couldn't wait to get home! Hehehehehe! 
He actually told me, that all that ML, won him back. At first, I was a little offended, but then I thought - HA, gotcha! 
