Hey Leslie just reading over your posts.. your sitch sounds so familiar to mine. My H has been contacting OW (ex GF from when he dated in Highschool) WHen I found out I was devastated.. emotionally wrought, pleading, blah blah.. I'm 6 months pregnant now.. but I told him from the VERY beginning of our relationship that I would NEVER tolerate him lying or cheating on me... so a week later I told him to leave.. go to her house , go to his sisters house, go to his friends I didn't care but I would not be disrespected and lied to in our house. So off he went to his sisters house.. while continuing to lie to me and the kids ad himself... It's been hard.. I've snooped, confronted him and cought him in so many lies these last few months .. I ca hardly beleive he's that fun loving, honest, up-standing guy I married.
But I also believe he's also having a hard time dealing with a bad family when he wa s a child, his dad dying when he was 12 and other things in life... I have also noticed when I am happier and have seemed like I'm moving on WO him .. he starts to talk to me more... when I am on the bottom of this emotional rollar coaster and I act cold and indifferent.. WITHOUT being just a "friend" (nice happy, cheery, like life is ok WO him) he tends to pull back.
I hope your sitch gets better we are here for you.
