hey leslie - good for you for standing your ground where OW is concerned - and he should wait until he's out before making those arrangements if not out of respect for you but for the boys. having you move there and THEN deciding he still wasnt sure was not fair to you or them - he seems to be one of those WAS who just cant/wont be alone.

I'm so sorry you are going thru this............believe me, I let mine back way too easy as well, 9 times to be exact and like RB said - he yanked the ball away at the last minute everytime. If saving your M is what you really want then making him fight for it is the right thing to do, otherwise it will be more of the same.

keep us updated and stay positive!