What a wonderful post. I certainly hope this is the turning point in your marriage, but I want to tell you that even if you have to go one or two or ten more rounds, you are the one who can! I am so, SO impressed with how you handled yourself in that conversation. I am praying every day that I can become so lovingly detached that I can support and love and respect my husband, no matter what he says to me about the OW or the A. I am in awe. So glad to be witnessing your process. It gives me much courage and hope. Thanks.
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller