GH, it's so great that your W was finally able to open up to you and communicate. I think yesterday will go down as the turning point in your marriage.

I do think you should be careful, though. If your W "ended it" yesterday, then she's not anywhere near over him. Even if she was adamant yesterday, she may very well give him the opportunity to apologize, and she may decide to forgive him, and that may give them the chance to kiss and make up. Affairs are like drugs ... we know that they defy logic and common sense.

GH, I sincerely hope that it is over forever, but I've been down this road and I can tell you that you don't know that for sure yet. Be careful while you celebrate.


The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)