Quote: This is all we think about. We need that mental stop sign. Let's just let things BE, for a while. If and when our spouses are ready to have a R talk let it be on their terms, when they are ready. Let them be the one's obsessing over what to say for a change, let them approach us. We are carrying the weight of this R all on our shoulders and it is making us insane. Let's make a deal that we both keep our mouths shut, just for the weekend, then come Monday morning we'll try to make another deal. Sound ok with you?
Well, I have to disagree a little. I am here because I have nothing better to do at work all day. We are slow again. Yes, I DO think about it while posting, and thinking about posting, but the minutes (lol) that I am not actually looking at this page, I am thinking about all kinds of other things. I think thinking in general is my problem...will have to give that some thought, lol.
As for your deal, well, that's easy since I usually don't post much at all over the weekends...Oh, you mean to our S's...well, I don't know if I can do that. I am 90% sure I am not going to spill the beans but there is some part of me that is still clinging to the idea of talking. That has never happened before. Usually I can come here, vent, and get over it. This time there is that little voice telling me to just do it. I doubt I will talk to her, but I have not given up the idea yet. I am still open to coercion, lol.
Oh, and BTW, I am not at ALL convinced my W would EVER talk about this if she didn't have to. I have said this in the past and I'll say it again, and if we are going to have a R in the future, I need her to open up a bit more.
