Well, I don't consider you as being in limbo. I know I will get disagreement from some of you on this, but I really think that limbo is something felt more when the WAS is still in the home because you are forced to deal with the "do I or don't I" decisions CONSTANTLY and in limbo, where there is no clear idea of what your S wants or doesn't want, then it's especially hard. I think if my W was NOT at home (which I am not saying I want right now) I would be able to GAL more, detach more and not be so affected by the limbo. I may be wrong. So, RB, this may be one of those cases where the WAS being at home is more of a problem than a help.
That said, what do we do now? Dunno. I am leaning towards taking Rob & Mama's advice and DBing STRONG to get past this urge to talk. I am thinking for ME anyway, this may be best. I don't know. I am still deciding.
