You both know I am bracing for a OT smack down...lol...maybe I will get locked out before then.
No, I do know I am being irrational about this and I AM reacting to her "stuff" and none if it is either good in general nor good DB. That is why I am here disclosing my feelings and what I THINK I want to do. I know if it passes this test, then I am possibly on the right track.
In the end, it's my decision to make but your input is GREATLY appreciated and taken into account.
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Oh, and P.S. In the interest of honesty, I guess I have to admit to finding one of "those" shirts laying around a few days ago and, well, it seemed to be the source of the foul smell in the room so I decided to "freshen" it a bit with some of my cologne. Yea, I know, childish, passive/aggressive, not direct and, well, stupid but it was one of those rare moments when I just did something that made me feel good without ANY consideration of ANYONE's thoughts, feelings or advice. If it makes me a bad person, oh well, I kind got a chuckle out of it. Anyway, it wasn't enough to REALLY change the smell of the thing, just, well as the comedy routine used to say spoofing the air freshener commercials..."Gee honey, now it smells like sh-t AND roses."
