Quote: we are now all at the same stage where we want to tell our spouse's to (pardon my french) $#^t or get of the pot
Hmm, I don't think that's French......
But you are so dead on Mama, I do hear myself repeating that phrase (in my head of course) to my W. At this point, a clear direction would be welcome instead of the cat and mouse game.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu