GH, I can honestly say that a few of us are all in the same boat, we've been here about the same amount of time and we are now all at the same stage where we want to tell our spouse's to (pardon my french) $#^t or get of the pot. We are all tired of this and just want it to be over.
I think whenever we feel the urge to control the situation or our spouse we need to hop back on this board and get our daily (or hourly) kick in the pants.
