Quote: honestly have to wonder if either one of us needs to have this talk yet. I know we're both in completely different places - you seem to be some steps further than me, but what is our "motivation" behind having one of thee talks? Just set our own minds at ease? Why do we need to that?
NM, I wish I thought to put that in my post because it is something I think about all the time and now that you mention it, it's usually the last thought I have right before deciding NOT to talk.
I really think this whole idea of the time not being right is due to me not feeling like my motivation is right. I feel like I am still looking for validation and looking to my W to make me feel all better inside. It's likely she won't do that and even if she COULD, I don't think it's wise to rely on her for that. So, the beat goes on...
