Thanks Rob. I don't need cheerleading as much as good, honest advice.
I appreciate your ideas on both where our W's are and my desire to talk about it with her. I think the time is near, and it's really just about picking the right time and place to do it. I already know what I want to say to her, and how to say it, it's just a matter of doing it. Of course, that's the hard part after SO long of denying any R talk.
I know what has to be done it's just that with so much positive stuff going on, it makes it all the more difficult to bring the up subjects that will at once bring the A, OM and my W's feelings back to the forefront where they have not been in awhile. I suppose that is a good thing in a lot of ways because it DOES need to be dealt with.
My whole focus in all this is to be direct and to the point with her without all my passive/agressive, wishy-washyness creeping in. That is really hard for me, but I know I can do it. I already do that now in most of our daily interaction, it's just one more subject I need to address that way.
I am feeling a bit better, having planned some time to myself this evening and getting my thoughts in order. As I was told VERY early on here, time IS on my side and will not forget that. So long as things are PROGRESSING, then time is my friend, not my enemy even thought time spent in limbo is very painful indeed.
